Turning Hate into Fuel
With time, I’ve learned not only do we need to ignore what others say about us but to let it fuel you.
How?
Well, first you have to realize no matter how someone appears to be and perform for others, they are most likely struggling with something internally even if they cannot admit that to others.
How do I know that?
Well, if you’re really great at emotional intelligence, empathy, and self-awareness you’ll realize that these people cannot do that for everyone which is why they have hatred towards you in the first place. Their heart won’t be in the right place until they look at certain internal struggles they have within themselves.
And from my experience some of those people will still attempt to keep up with you no matter how much you block them, don’t care to know about them, etc. As Paulo Coelho once said:
“Relax: haters are secret admirers wanting to be you”
Why do they do this?
It’s an internal battle with themselves. It really has NOTHING to do with you.
So not only should you ignore what they say about you, think about you, gossip about you, make content about you to others but remind yourself that they have their own internal issues that doesn’t mean you need to give them any of your energy. The truth I’ve come to realize is these people will attempt to keep up with no matter what you do.
I use to dislike my haters keeping up with me but I’ve realized I’m simply that great. I am the blueprint.If you’re here, you probably are someone who is magnetic and unique on their own too or maybe trying to find your voice. Understand that this energy and influence you hold can come with support and hate as well.
You can say f*ck you from afar to the haters and wish them the best far away from you. Because trust me, you do not want to be near anyone with the spirit of envy towards you. It’s a nasty energy.
You know why a little F*ck you fuel to haters is great?
You can use it as motivation. It’s not the best for long-term work and creations but even just a bit of it will fuel you if you feel like you can’t get something off the ground or feel stagnant in your creations. People are always watching you but no one keeps up with you like the people who dislike or hate you the most. Let the naysayers fuel your work when you cannot get it from another place. Let those who have attempted to get reactions out of you and be aggressive towards you keep watching at whatever phase of life you’re in.
If you’ve kept up with all my posts you know I was in a depressive state for months. It was really difficult but I do feel way better than I did months ago. The only way I was able to show up and create beautiful creations was not only using my energy but literally transmuting and alchemizing all the energy my haters send me from afar. They’ve been here for YEARS. Some are new and some keep coming back to watch. When they are really lurking hard? I have dreams about it and it’s a beautiful gift to be able to feel that and see it so I can transmute it accordingly. If you’re spiritually gifted like me, use it to your advantage. There is always a way to deal with these people in a way that will always benefit you as long as they stick around to watch you and trust that they will.
If you’re spiritual I already know you know how to transmute this energy easily because remember that everything is energy. Yes, even your haters from afar. We are all vessels with a spirit of energy. You are a piece of source. Learn to use it to your benefit, do your transmutation work, and thank them from afar.
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I hope to see you there so we can all be consistent together with our inner work and growth. 💚
XOXO,
Rubi
